Grayson Arroyo-Smiley was such a special human being." According to a website organized by Grayson's mother Michelle Arroyo, he was diagnosed with cancer at age 6. The 49-year-old reality star - who is best known for appearing on 'The Real Housewives of Orange County' alongside his fiance Gretchen Rossi - lost his son Grayson to a quick battle with brain cancer, with his ex-wife Michelle Arroyo taking to social media on Monday . 384 following. Michelle shared, "His heart stopped here at home and I performed chest compressions to get it going until the paramedics arrived and took over." michelle arroyo relationship with slade - besttkd.com She never said much while Grayson was alive, but now that hes not, I think shes had it., The fitness coach continued: Gretchen just got a big chunk of money for being on Ultimate Girls Trip and Michelle is having to go through a GoFundMe to pay for his services.. }); }); ORANGE COUNTY, CALIFORNIA: The 'Real Housewives of Orange County' alum Slade Smiley's son Grayson Smiley died on Sunday. Sitemap, Your California Privacy Rights She explained the death of Grayson to be unexpected for the family. Grayson's family is in huge shock by the loss. It was very unexpected as last week he had CSF drawn from his shunts and they adjusted the valve setting of his shunt and he was doing much better, she wrote via Instagram earlier this month. Now, shes best known for, Slade Smiley and Gretchen Rossi have a long history with the Real Housewives of Orange County. I cant say why - but I kept him In my prayers a stranger I was drawn too! Slade Smiley's Ex Begs For Funeral Funds and BLASTS Gretchen Rossi! Slade Smiley's Late Son's GoFundMe Implies He Didn't Help With Medical